10 Wedding Trends And Traditions That Are Totally Outdated

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Garter toss and bouquet toss

Garter toss and bouquet toss, outdated wedding traditions losing popularity. Garter removed by groom, tossed for next to marry. Bouquet toss singles out women, seen as competition.

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Traditional vows

Traditional wedding vows date back to the 16th century but are evolving. Many couples prefer personal, heartfelt vows over formal ones. Combining traditional and personal elements is an option for those uncomfortable with public speaking or writing.

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Gender-specific wedding parties

Bridesmaids' roles have evolved from serving the bride to supporting her emotionally. Mix up your wedding party and include friends of the opposite sex who have been important in your life. Prioritize your needs as a couple and choose what feels right for you.

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Bridesmaids all wear the same dress style and color

Bridesmaids originally wore matching dresses to confuse robbers and serve as witnesses. They also ensured the bride's safe journey and served as stand-ins if necessary.

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Diamond engagement rings

Diamond rings became popular in the 1930s, marketed as a symbol of lasting marriage. However, modern couples are opting for alternative stones due to sustainability and personal preferences.

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Formal rehearsal dinners

Rehearsal dinners precede weddings to celebrate and honor loved ones. While traditionally paid for by groom's parents, modern couples personalize these events to fit their preferences and budget.

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The bride's parents pay for the wedding

Traditionally, bride's parents covered wedding expenses, but societal shifts have changed this. Couples now discuss budgets with family members and may pay for the wedding themselves.

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The bride must wear white and a veil

White wedding dresses gained popularity in the 19th century. Modern brides are embracing colored dresses, and veils are no longer mandatory.

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The groom and groomsmen wear full suits

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Groomsmen attire is moving away from formal matching suits. Casual and themed looks are gaining popularity for a more relaxed and personalized wedding style.