How To Know If Your Friends Are Really Rooting For You

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They don't see you as a rival

A friend who competes with you, shows jealousy, and wants what you have is toxic. They copy your style, boast about their strengths, and seek to outdo you.

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They don't see you as a rival

Confront your competitive friend, express discomfort with their behavior, and provide specific examples. If they can't explain or change, they're against you, not for you.

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They don't belittle you

A true friend uplifts you, acknowledges your strengths, and offers helpful advice. They avoid damaging your self-esteem and provide actionable solutions.

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They don't belittle you

A friend who hyper-criticizes without guidance is not supportive. Don't tolerate their negativity. Assert your autonomy and exit the toxic friendship. Surround yourself with positive influences.

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They show up during important moments

A true friend shows up when you need them, even if it means inconvenience. They provide support, whether it's offering a loan or being a listening ear.

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They show up during important moments

Communicate your expectations clearly. If a friend repeatedly fails to show up without explanation, it indicates a lack of care and respect for your feelings.

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They celebrate your accomplishments

A true friend celebrates your achievements and acknowledges your efforts without dismissing them or making you feel guilty.

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They celebrate your accomplishments

Consider your friend's feelings before sharing your accomplishments. Avoid being boastful or insensitive, especially when they're going through a tough time.

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They support what you do as long as it makes you happy

A true friend respects your choices, supports your happiness, and values your authentic self without imposing their views on you.

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They support what you do as long as it makes you happy

Beware of friends who undermine your perception, criticize your decisions, and exert dominance over your life, as it can be mentally exhausting and unhealthy. Respect and equality are essential in a healthy relationship.

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