How To Sniff Out Alligator Tears & Shut Them Down

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Fake or not

Signs of faked remorse: rapid emotional switches, hesitant speech, excessive "umms," squeezed eyebrows, extended sadness.

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Fake or not

Genuine sadness: short duration, smooth transition to happiness, engaged lower face, balanced brow movement. Trust the face, not the tears.

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Gaslighting, playing the victim, and blame-shifting

A true friend uplifts you, acknowledges your strengths, and offers helpful advice. They avoid damaging your self-esteem and provide actionable solutions.

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Gaslighting, playing the victim, and blame-shifting

Don't be fooled by the tears. Listen to their words. Disregard the theatrics and recognize emotional abuse.

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Recognizing a pattern of behavior

Identify serial manipulator: constant tears, always seeking help, no happiness contact. Recognize early.

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Recognizing a pattern of behavior

 Evaluate give-and-take: recall emotional support, one-sided relationship. Question tears, consider confrontation for change.

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Setting boundaries

Set boundaries with alligator tears: Don't entertain their act, they'll play it up. Remove yourself or excuse with work.

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Setting boundaries

Limit contact: Recognize manipulation, don't feel bad cutting them out. Prioritize your emotional well-being.

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Saying no and sticking to it

Say "no" to emotional manipulators: Learn to prioritize your needs, spot fake tears, and resist guilt-tripping.

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Saying no and sticking to it

Set boundaries: Leave the situation, call them out tactfully using "I" sentences, and avoid giving in to their demands and drama.

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